<![CDATA[Gaycels.org - All Forums]]> https://www.gaycels.org/ Sun, 08 Nov 2026 22:18:16 +0000 MyBB <![CDATA[Forum was offline for about a week due to security updates and maintenance]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=19 Sat, 31 Oct 2026 11:33:13 +0100 151Storm]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=19 The forum is now back online and will continue to run unhindered in the foreseeable future.]]> The forum is now back online and will continue to run unhindered in the foreseeable future.]]> <![CDATA[feeling lonely]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=18 Wed, 21 Oct 2026 00:13:38 +0200 bic]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=18 .gif togif.f342c633.gif1.54 MB · Downloads: 3 ]]> .gif togif.f342c633.gif1.54 MB · Downloads: 3 ]]> <![CDATA[self-care and beauty]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=17 Sat, 10 Oct 2026 00:07:04 +0200 voegelin]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=17 <![CDATA[What is a gaycel?]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=16 Fri, 09 Oct 2026 10:07:33 +0200 Atlas]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=16 Incels define inceldom as the involuntary lack of sex, and therefore, they claim, gaycels aren't real incels, because finding a male sexual partner is much easier than finding a female sexual partner.
There's 2 points that must be addressed:

Firstly, the fact that sex qua sex should be sufficient to escape a condition of inceldom. Straight incels claim this is the case, but they're not consistent with this supposed axiom; if they were, they would have to consider virtually all incels as volcels, and therefore fakcels, because prostitution is a thing: pretty much anyone can hire a prostitute to lose his virginity; they retort by claiming that hiring a prostitute doesn't qualify, some of them even calling it a form of masturbation. But why is that? 
I think the answer is the lack of romantic desire, as the prostitute is only doing what she's doing, in the pursuit of something which has nothing to do with you, i.e.her own enrichment. She has no interest in doing what she's doing with you: you're perfectly fungible with any other customer. 
Let's take now the case of gay hookups: could one say there's any romantic desire in them? Maybe, but generally no, there's no romantic desire in a gay hookup with a total stranger who'll probably ghost you once he finishes up inside of you. The incels might say, that at least there's desire in a gay hookup, as the sexual partner chose you; but what kind of desire is that? it is desire for their own satisfaction, not desire for you: you're nothing but an improved fleshlight, a fungible cocksleeve; there's absolutely no interest in you beyond that which someone might have in a disposable sex toy. Can you really say you graduated inceldom if this is the closest thing you can get to a romantic relationship? I don't think so. 

Secondly, some gaycels might not even be able to achieve something like a hookup: I am one such example, as due to my Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD) I am literally unable to even set up a hookup, let alone showing up to one. I cannot even make friends, so I don't foresee ever being capable of finding a male partner. 
Some other might be so mentally ill and so repulsive, that the only hookup they could get may be some married old man, 3 times their age, and possibly get infected with AIDS. 

So not only it is demonstrably false to claim that all gaycels could easily hook up with a suitable partner, but even if that weren't the case, it's self evident how sex qua sex isn't by itself even sufficient to graduate inceldom.
So while the straight incels may have hypergamy to blame for their inability to find a partner, and it is a real and pervasive phenomenon, which has indeed doomed many young straight men to lifelong sexlessness but, most importantly, also loneliness, we gaycels have other problems, but which lead to the same effect: lifelong loneliness, never being actually desired, at best being someone's disposable sex toy. 
The causes for these issues aren't yet clear to me, as I have yet to explore the issue thoroughly, but I'm hoping new insights will result from this thread.
.jpg b2w70k.jpg58.03 KB · Downloads: 2 ]]> Incels define inceldom as the involuntary lack of sex, and therefore, they claim, gaycels aren't real incels, because finding a male sexual partner is much easier than finding a female sexual partner.
There's 2 points that must be addressed:

Firstly, the fact that sex qua sex should be sufficient to escape a condition of inceldom. Straight incels claim this is the case, but they're not consistent with this supposed axiom; if they were, they would have to consider virtually all incels as volcels, and therefore fakcels, because prostitution is a thing: pretty much anyone can hire a prostitute to lose his virginity; they retort by claiming that hiring a prostitute doesn't qualify, some of them even calling it a form of masturbation. But why is that? 
I think the answer is the lack of romantic desire, as the prostitute is only doing what she's doing, in the pursuit of something which has nothing to do with you, i.e.her own enrichment. She has no interest in doing what she's doing with you: you're perfectly fungible with any other customer. 
Let's take now the case of gay hookups: could one say there's any romantic desire in them? Maybe, but generally no, there's no romantic desire in a gay hookup with a total stranger who'll probably ghost you once he finishes up inside of you. The incels might say, that at least there's desire in a gay hookup, as the sexual partner chose you; but what kind of desire is that? it is desire for their own satisfaction, not desire for you: you're nothing but an improved fleshlight, a fungible cocksleeve; there's absolutely no interest in you beyond that which someone might have in a disposable sex toy. Can you really say you graduated inceldom if this is the closest thing you can get to a romantic relationship? I don't think so. 

Secondly, some gaycels might not even be able to achieve something like a hookup: I am one such example, as due to my Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD) I am literally unable to even set up a hookup, let alone showing up to one. I cannot even make friends, so I don't foresee ever being capable of finding a male partner. 
Some other might be so mentally ill and so repulsive, that the only hookup they could get may be some married old man, 3 times their age, and possibly get infected with AIDS. 

So not only it is demonstrably false to claim that all gaycels could easily hook up with a suitable partner, but even if that weren't the case, it's self evident how sex qua sex isn't by itself even sufficient to graduate inceldom.
So while the straight incels may have hypergamy to blame for their inability to find a partner, and it is a real and pervasive phenomenon, which has indeed doomed many young straight men to lifelong sexlessness but, most importantly, also loneliness, we gaycels have other problems, but which lead to the same effect: lifelong loneliness, never being actually desired, at best being someone's disposable sex toy. 
The causes for these issues aren't yet clear to me, as I have yet to explore the issue thoroughly, but I'm hoping new insights will result from this thread.
.jpg b2w70k.jpg58.03 KB · Downloads: 2 ]]> <![CDATA[Forum admin will be on leave for a while]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=15 Wed, 07 Oct 2026 10:30:41 +0200 151Storm]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=15 The forum's admin and founder, Atlas, will be away for a while. He left me access to the forum and server infrastructure for maintenance and just basic moderation purposes. 
Updates to the forum's aesthetics and functionalities, as well as updates to the server infrastructure will slow down during his absence, as this is his project, not mine, and my support extends only to basic upkeep.
I personally expect he'll be back within a month or two at most.]]> The forum's admin and founder, Atlas, will be away for a while. He left me access to the forum and server infrastructure for maintenance and just basic moderation purposes. 
Updates to the forum's aesthetics and functionalities, as well as updates to the server infrastructure will slow down during his absence, as this is his project, not mine, and my support extends only to basic upkeep.
I personally expect he'll be back within a month or two at most.]]> <![CDATA[TFCD]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=13 Mon, 05 Oct 2026 00:35:33 +0200 bic]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=13 i think we need to kill all fakecels no one is allowed to have sex  kill and rape them they deserve it ]]> i think we need to kill all fakecels no one is allowed to have sex  kill and rape them they deserve it ]]> <![CDATA[Reminder to all the fakecels]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=11 Sat, 03 Oct 2026 23:53:34 +0200 Atlas]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=11 .jpg 8pf2hm.jpg339.16 KB · Downloads: 7 ]]> .jpg 8pf2hm.jpg339.16 KB · Downloads: 7 ]]> <![CDATA[hi]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=10 Sat, 03 Oct 2026 22:01:28 +0200 bic]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=10
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]]> <![CDATA[Status of the site]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=5 Sat, 26 Sep 2026 15:03:09 +0200 Atlas]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=5 The sign up system may malfunction from time to time, but we are (I am) working on it.
In the meantime, you should join the gaycels.org official discord server, which is far more populated than this forum is at the moment. 
the invite is below:
https://discord.gg/g79VmjycaV]]> The sign up system may malfunction from time to time, but we are (I am) working on it.
In the meantime, you should join the gaycels.org official discord server, which is far more populated than this forum is at the moment. 
the invite is below:
https://discord.gg/g79VmjycaV]]> <![CDATA[Nice Things Thread]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=3 Thu, 24 Sep 2026 21:27:57 +0200 Atlas]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=3 <![CDATA[Rules and FAQ]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=2 Thu, 24 Sep 2026 13:00:02 +0200 Atlas]]> https://www.gaycels.org/showthread.php?tid=2
This is a forum for gay involuntary celibates, single gay men who have trouble finding a significant other.
THIS FORUM IS STILL IN ITS BETA VERSION: SOME FEATURES MAY NOT WORK, AND THERE WILL BE SOME ROUGH EDGES.
MEMBERSHIP
  • Gaycel (Allowed):
    • A man (18+) who desires a romantic relationship with another man but is unable to enter one.

  • Women and Straight Individuals (Not allowed):
    • Banned on sight, no exceptions. This is a gay male-only forum.

  • Non-Gaycel (Not allowed):
    • Even if interested in blackpill philosophy, the community has voted not to allow non-Gaycels.

  • Under 18's (Not allowed):
    • Forum accepts only those who are 18+, no exceptions.

RULES

Note that moderators will consider rules on a case-by-case basis.
    • Do not LARP; there is a difference between withholding your experiences and pretending that they never happened.

  • Behavior:
    • Do not persecute, harass, or attack others.

    • Do not troll, bait, proselytize, post platitudes, mass tag users, or necropost (i.e., do not post in inactive threads older than ~1 month unless you have something to contribute - plain agreement, mere quoting, and meaningless one-liners don't qualify as contributing).

  • Accounts:
    • You should only have one account, don't make more. Do not share your account, or post on behalf of other users.

  • Content:
    • Do not post low effort, spam, advertisement, or in all-caps.

    • Use the [NSFW] tag if your thread has shocking content, but use it sparingly.

    • Do not post illegal content. If in doubt, don't post it.

    • Do not sexualize minors in any way, shape, or form.

    • Do not post animal abuse content.

    • Do not post AI generated content (spam)

These rules are very flexible. You VILL be warned or banned if you attempt to circumvent any of them.

Please also read our terms and rules and privacy policy for more information on data and content. By using this site you agree to all our policies and rules.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTION

I have an inquiry or proposal, where can I reach you?
Email boards@gaycels.org

Why are the rules so unusual?
This is a forum for men who can't get a partner and feel sad about it. Seeing romantically successful people brag about their experiences on the forum would be insulting, and would only exacerbate the issue.


Can I block users?
Yes.

How can I stay safe online?
The same way you do anywhere else: Don't post personal information (name, address, phone, email, pictures, etc), unless you are comfortable exposing that information to the whole internet. If you want to go a step further, you can post with a proxy or a VPN.

Why was X user banned?
We do not announce reasons for warnings or bans, but you can try asking the user yourself. Otherwise, use the ban megathread in Offtopic.

What is low effort?
It is content that is unrelated to a thread, posted for memetic value, or spam-like in nature. Examples: an emote reply, quoting someone and adding nothing else, one-word replies, and many other variations. The content might as well not have been posted.]]>
This is a forum for gay involuntary celibates, single gay men who have trouble finding a significant other.
THIS FORUM IS STILL IN ITS BETA VERSION: SOME FEATURES MAY NOT WORK, AND THERE WILL BE SOME ROUGH EDGES.
MEMBERSHIP
  • Gaycel (Allowed):
    • A man (18+) who desires a romantic relationship with another man but is unable to enter one.

  • Women and Straight Individuals (Not allowed):
    • Banned on sight, no exceptions. This is a gay male-only forum.

  • Non-Gaycel (Not allowed):
    • Even if interested in blackpill philosophy, the community has voted not to allow non-Gaycels.

  • Under 18's (Not allowed):
    • Forum accepts only those who are 18+, no exceptions.

RULES

Note that moderators will consider rules on a case-by-case basis.
    • Do not LARP; there is a difference between withholding your experiences and pretending that they never happened.

  • Behavior:
    • Do not persecute, harass, or attack others.

    • Do not troll, bait, proselytize, post platitudes, mass tag users, or necropost (i.e., do not post in inactive threads older than ~1 month unless you have something to contribute - plain agreement, mere quoting, and meaningless one-liners don't qualify as contributing).

  • Accounts:
    • You should only have one account, don't make more. Do not share your account, or post on behalf of other users.

  • Content:
    • Do not post low effort, spam, advertisement, or in all-caps.

    • Use the [NSFW] tag if your thread has shocking content, but use it sparingly.

    • Do not post illegal content. If in doubt, don't post it.

    • Do not sexualize minors in any way, shape, or form.

    • Do not post animal abuse content.

    • Do not post AI generated content (spam)

These rules are very flexible. You VILL be warned or banned if you attempt to circumvent any of them.

Please also read our terms and rules and privacy policy for more information on data and content. By using this site you agree to all our policies and rules.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTION

I have an inquiry or proposal, where can I reach you?
Email boards@gaycels.org

Why are the rules so unusual?
This is a forum for men who can't get a partner and feel sad about it. Seeing romantically successful people brag about their experiences on the forum would be insulting, and would only exacerbate the issue.


Can I block users?
Yes.

How can I stay safe online?
The same way you do anywhere else: Don't post personal information (name, address, phone, email, pictures, etc), unless you are comfortable exposing that information to the whole internet. If you want to go a step further, you can post with a proxy or a VPN.

Why was X user banned?
We do not announce reasons for warnings or bans, but you can try asking the user yourself. Otherwise, use the ban megathread in Offtopic.

What is low effort?
It is content that is unrelated to a thread, posted for memetic value, or spam-like in nature. Examples: an emote reply, quoting someone and adding nothing else, one-word replies, and many other variations. The content might as well not have been posted.]]>